Skip New Year Resolutions. Lead Yourself into New Year Transformation.
Stop repeating the same patterns. Start leading with calm confidence and trusted influence – and finally step into your next level of leadership success.
The 90-Day Self-Leadership Reset is a science-backed, high-touch journey that helps you transform one high-impact pattern in how you lead yourself under pressure. Instead of another list of goals you'll abandon by February, you'll build the calm confidence, trusted influence and consistent follow-through that real leadership requires.
Why Resolutions Don't Change Your Leadership
Every December, high-potential people make the same promises:
- Next year I'll be more focused.
- I'll stop procrastinating.
- I'll handle conflict better.
- I'll finally step up as a leader.
But by the third week of January:
- Work gets hectic.
- Pressure rises.
- Old triggers get pushed.
- The "New Year, New Me" quietly disappears.
It's not that you don't care. It's that you're trying to change outcomes without changing your self-leadership.
Resolutions rely on short-lived motivation. Self-leadership is about how you think, feel and respond when it really counts.
New Year Resolutions vs New Year Transformation
New Year Resolutions say:
- "Try harder. Be more disciplined. Push yourself."
- Set lots of goals with no real support.
- Rely on willpower while nothing else changes.
New Year Transformation says:
- "Let's rewire the patterns that keep pulling you back."
- Build daily practices that change your brain over time.
- Get support while you practice a new way of leading yourself.
If you upgrade how you lead yourself in a few key moments, you change the trajectory of your leadership, work and life.
What This Program Actually Does
Over 90 days, we focus on one high-impact leadership pattern that's been getting in your way and work together to transform it.
For example:
- Reacting defensively when someone challenges you.
- Avoiding difficult conversations until they explode.
- Procrastinating on strategic work while staying busy with low-value tasks.
- Shrinking back or overthinking when you should speak up.
- Saying "yes" to everything and quietly burning out.
Instead of trying to fix everything at once, we:
- 1.Identify the single pattern that will give you the biggest leadership upgrade if it changes.
- 2.Design a personalised self-leadership plan based on neuroscience and self-leadership research.
- 3.Practice small, daily self-leadership reps (5–10 minutes) that rewire your brain over 90 days.
- 4.Support you with weekly feedback and 1:1 coaching, so you're never left to figure it out alone.
What This Transformation Leads To
Right now, your patterns have a cost:
- The sharp comment in a meeting you regret.
- The tough conversation you keep postponing.
- The important work that lives on your "later" list.
- The opportunities you quietly talk yourself out of.
When you change how you lead yourself in those moments, a lot changes.
You become the kind of leader who:
- Stays calm and clear under pressure – so people trust you with bigger responsibilities and higher-stakes decisions.
- Handles conflict and difficult conversations with confidence – so relationships deepen instead of crack.
- Follows through consistently on what matters – so your results, not just your intentions, speak for you.
- Shows up as the leader you know you can be – so you stop feeling like an imposter in your own role.
- Creates space and energy instead of constant firefighting – so you can grow your career without burning out.
This isn't just about "fixing a habit." It's about unlocking the confidence, credibility and opportunities that come when you can truly trust yourself as a leader.
Why This Works (In Plain English)
This is not a motivational challenge or a stack of videos you never watch.
The 90-Day Self-Leadership Reset combines:
- Neuroscience – how habits and identity actually change in the brain over ~90 days.
- Self-leadership research – tools like implementation intentions, mental rehearsal and natural rewards.
- Coaching and accountability – real conversations about real situations.
You'll be working with:
- Daily practices (5–10 minutes) that change how you respond under pressure
- A daily log to track wins, notice shifts, and build momentum
- Weekly feedback to stay on track (even when life gets hectic)
- Three 1:1 coaching sessions at key points: start, midpoint, and end
It's not about doing more. It's about changing how you show up.
What You Get Over 90 Days (Founding Cohort Package)
Is This For You?
This Is For You If:
- You're ready to stop repeating the same patterns and do the work to transform how you lead yourself under pressure.
- You want a science-backed, high-touch program (not another course you'll never finish).
- You're willing to commit to 5–10 minutes of daily practice and weekly check-ins over 90 days.
- You're serious about building the calm confidence, trusted influence and consistent follow-through that leadership requires.
This Is Not For You If:
- You're looking for quick fixes or motivational pep talks without doing the work.
- You prefer self-study courses with no accountability or feedback.
- You're not ready to commit to daily practice and weekly engagement over 90 days.
Founding Cohort: Limited to 20 Participants
The 90-Day Self-Leadership Reset is normally priced at £2,000 for 90 days of personalised coaching, weekly feedback, three 1:1 sessions, and ongoing support.
But this is the Founding Cohort.
You'll help me refine the experience, share honest feedback, and be part of building something genuinely transformational for leaders like you.
In return, your investment is just £200 for the full 90 days.
You still get everything:
- Your personalised self-leadership plan
- Daily practices and weekly feedback
- Three 1:1 coaching sessions
- Private Slack/email support
- Founding cohort group Q&A sessions
This price is only available to the first 20 people who join.
After that, the program returns to its full price.
How It Works
Apply & Secure Your Place
Fill in a short application. If it's a fit, you'll receive payment details and program logistics.
Discovery Session (Week 1)
We identify your high-impact pattern and co-design your personalised 90-day self-leadership plan.
Daily Practice & Weekly Check-Ins
You practice your new leadership pattern daily (5–10 mins). Every week, you submit a short check-in and get personalised feedback.
Midpoint Coaching Session (Week 6)
We troubleshoot challenges, refine your approach, and make sure your transformation stays on track.
Closing Session (Week 12)
We review your progress, embed the transformation, and build your ongoing self-leadership plan.
About Your Coach – DJ Sobanjo
DJ Sobanjo is the founder of Maximised Leadership, a leadership development practice focused on helping high-potential individuals lead themselves with calm confidence and trusted influence.
With a background in organisational psychology, neuroscience-informed coaching, and over 2 decades of leadership development experience across sectors, DJ specialises in the kind of transformation that actually sticks – because it's rooted in how people really think, feel, and respond under pressure.
DJ's approach blends rigorous research with real-world practicality. No fluff. No generic advice. Just science-backed strategies tailored to your specific patterns and situations.
The 90-Day Self-Leadership Reset is the result of years of testing, refining, and working 1:1 with leaders who were done with surface-level change and ready for real transformation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Ready to Lead Yourself into New Year Transformation?
If you're done with resolutions that fade by February...
If you're ready to transform the patterns that keep pulling you back...
If you want to build the calm confidence, trusted influence, and consistent follow-through that real leadership requires...
Then it's time to join the 90-Day Self-Leadership Reset.
Limited to 20 founding cohort members